I love setting the vibe with music. Music can really shift your mood and serve as a way to state affirmations and visualize your dream self. Here’s a curated playlist I made to remind you of the bad b*tch you are.
I personally love to listen to this playlist when I”m out the shower, doing my skincare and putting on lotion or in my car with the music blasting. This is the playlist for dancing in the mirror and feeling all up on yourself. If you don’t usually dance in the mirror, try it! It’s a great way to uplift your confidence and love for your body.
My playlist on Apple Music: I’M THAT GIRL for more songs that are not on this list.
Put the volume up and enjoy <3
1. I’M THAT GIRL – Beyoncé
You are top tier and no one else compares. This song really makes you feel like the baddest.
vibe: sensual & sexy, dance in the mirror type; blast in the car with the girls
2. ALIEN SUPERSTAR – Beyoncé
You are unique and special. You have something that no one else has. The chorus will have you feeling glamorous.
vibe: upbeat house, bump with the besties, empowering, dance in front of the mirror
3. THIQUE – Beyoncé
Get into that “thique” mentality no matter how big that ass is. This song has a great intro that sets up that sexy, bad bitch feel.
vibe: empowering, sexy and sensual, listen to while you’re working out
4. PURE/HONEY – Beyoncé
Yoncé really did it again making another bop that has you feeling flawless. Perfect for getting in that bad bitch, dance-y feel good mood.
vibe: house, vogue
5. Luxurious – Gwen Stefani
Great throwback song that gives a luxurious vibe that makes you feel like laying on a silk bed naked with rose petals and money all around you
vibe: sensual, slow with an old hip-hop sample
6. It’s My Life – Gwen Stefani
It’s your life, don’t let fear get in the way of your dreams. How much do you commit to bettering your life?
vibe: pop rock, girly, sing loudly
7. I Do – Cardi B ft. Sza
You do whatever you want and this song is a great reminder. Leave him on read cause you feel like it.
vibe: pop with rap, not really the type to dance to but great to sing to
8. Better Than Me – Doja Cat
No one is better than you.
vibe: slow and sensual, great to sing to
9. Shine – Doja Cat
Another slow, sensual and girly bop. You shine like diamonds.
vibe: glamor, pop
10. Woman – Doja Cat
Great song to embrace and praise femininity’s power. Open yourself to being loved by someone who protects, provides and cherishes you.
vibe: upbeat, pop with rap, great to dance to
11. Get Into It Yuh – Doja Cat
Get into it! A cute song that will lift your mood, great to sing with the girlies.
vibe: pop, upbeat and girly
12. B.S. – Jhené Aiko ft. H.E.R.
Whether you just went through a break up, or have been in a slump this song will get you back on your bullshit. You might have been in love, but you are perfectly fine without them. You have a fresh start!
vibe: flex on your ex, empowering, great to sing to
13. Cocky AF – Megan Thee Stallion
Megan will always make you feel like you are THAT bitch no one can mess with. You have a right to be cocky, you’re a baddie inside and out.
vibe: fast rap, heavy bass, rightfully conceited
14. Sex With Me – Rihanna
Sexually empowering, sex with you is amazing. Periodt.
vibe: pop/r&b, loudly sing it with the girlies
15. Bichiyal – Bad Bunny
Something about this song just gets me going, it makes you feel like such an intimidating, sexy bad bitch that can’t be touched.
vibe: reggaeton, single girl bop, perreo
16. Gaslight – INJI
Just a song about being a baddie and getting revenge by manipulating a trash man that thinks they can take advantage of you with no consequences. Is it toxic? Maybe, but at the end of the song she says its a joke so it’s okay.
vibe: house, vogue, sassy
17. Her – Megan thee Stallion
the whole song is a mantra to be honest. I like to sing this song thinking it was written about me.
vibe: house beat
18. Plan B – Megan Thee Stallion
This song is a big f*ck you to the trash men you have messed with in the past. I love that Megan makes it clear to put yourself before these men and that you are too good for them anyways.
vibe: rap, aggressive
19. Eat it – Megan Thee Stallion
He better eat it!! Allow yourself to receive and demand it with no shame. You are worth having your pleasure prioritized.
vibe: rap, deep bass, twerk
20. Big Ole Freak – Megan Thee Stallion
You know Megan will have you feeling that strong, intimidating, and confident energy she exudes.
vibe: twerk, great to rap to, sex queen
21. Conceited – Sza
Bet on yourself! Be unapologetic with your looks and who you are as a person. See your greatness even if no one else acknowledges it. You’re doing great sweetie. It contains great affirmations that you can sing on repeat.
vibe: pop, sing outloud
22. SAD GIRLZ LUV MONEY – Amaarae & Kali Uchis
You might be a lover girl, but you’re in no rush. You’re focusing on yourself, your money and having fun.
vibe: dancehall, girly
23. Aqui Yo Mando – Kali Uchis ft. Rico Nasty
You call the shots! It’s about a relationship, but you can see this in relationship to your life. You take charge of your life, you make the decisions and set the standards.
vibe: bilingual, dominatrixxx, I do what I want
24. Fue Mejor – Kali Uchis & SZA
Honestly, most of Kali Uchis’ music will have you feeling feminine and sensual, and adding SZA to the mix just makes it even better. I love this song for the “better off without you” mood it gives.
vibe: bilingual, bad bitch, you’re too good for him
25. Glamorous – Fergie ft. Ludacris
Perfect for that rich bitch fantasy while also not forgetting where you came from. Use this song to visualize your dream life.
vibe: iconic throwback, glamorousss
26. Linda – Tokischa & ROSALÍA
To blast in the car with your besties. A girlfriend bop lifting up you and your bestie.
vibe: girly, pop, for the girlies
27. Persuasive – Doechii & SZA
How does it feel to be that bitch?! This is for the pothead baddies and anyone who is into music like SZA and Amaarae.
vibe: very vibey, great to smoke to
The Impact Music Can Have
Try to be more intentional with the music you listen to. Use music to help you feel more energized, confident, feminine, aggressive etc. I think music is a great way to get you into whatever fantasy you’re feeling. For example I have multiple playlists for the mood I want to be in; I have a chill playlist, feel-good playlist, a sad playlist and others.
Also, music has many great benefits on your brain and mental health. I hope this playlist helps you get into your sexy, feminine confident side. Let me know what you think! Have a great day/night <3