Summer is coming up and it’s always a hot girl summer! Being a hot girl is more than looks, it’s a mindset that brings confidence, freedom and femininity.
I have some intentions to take advantage of my singlehood and youth. If you are on the same vibe, I think you’ll benefit from this post.
Girl trips. New hobbies. New experiences. Prioritize female friendships. Decenter men from your life. Solitude.
These things are what I believe a “hot girl summer” consists of. Include these in your summer and see how much you grow
Girl Trips
These are beneficial and essential. They strengthen your bond and create memories you won’t ever forget. Girl trips are the most fun and you truly get to embrace your femininity with other women. If you don’t have many female friends, try out BumbleBFF. You never know what putting yourself out there will bring to you.
Hobbies
Getting into a hobby or prioritizing a current hobby is a great way to get to know yourself. Trying something new can open so many doors for you. New friendships, different experiences, impactful lessons. And it’s simply just great to have a hobby you do for fun without the pressure of being good at it or making money from it. Whatever hobby comes to mind, DO IT. You’re a quick google search away from finding lessons, classes or video tutorials.
New Experiences
Make that trip. Book those tickets. Try a music festival or concert. Do something you’ve never done before. Life is what you make it! Don’t overthink it or worry about money. Obviously don’t carelessly spend money, but know that you will make that money back.
Prioritize female friendships.
The close female friendships in your life can be so fulfilling. Emotionally and mentally. Everyone needs a strong support system when men/life lets you down. It’s a bond that can’t be compared to a romantic love. It’s just different. Strengthen the relationships you have by planning those girl outings. Be more vulnerable and open to your friends about your inner world, your emotions and insecurities. Watch how your relationships begin to flourish and strengthen.
Decenter men from your life.
This is for the single girlies: I know it’s just normal to have a guy you’re casually dating, fucking, or texting but try to not spend too much time on men. Instead of spending your thoughts and time on a man/men, see what else you can do with that time that would be much more beneficial. Cause honestly, there’s not much to gain from men unless it’s dick. And if you want that, no one is stopping you. As long as you aren’t betraying yourself for male validation. Don’t take these men seriously and you won’t get hurt. Just evaluate how you see sex. If you don’t see sex as meaningful, then I see why casual sex is an option. For me personally, I no longer want to have that intimate experience with just anyone. It never really benefitted me and was simply instant gratification.
If you’re going to date around, do it for the experience. Do it without expectations of it becoming something serious, and have options. Don’t take these men serious. You’re the prize.
Solitude
I’ll always say this. Spending time alone is sooo important. You get to learn more about yourself and have time to reflect on things. With time you will begin to enjoy your own company. You won’t feel the need to hit people up to do errands or daily activities. You no longer will need to rely on others to do things you’ve been wanting to do. It’s very empowering and fulfilling to know that you can do things on your own and enjoy it.
Have fun!
Have a hot girl summer by living unapologetically and doing things for YOU. Make memories with those who matter and live your best life. Spend time alone, make plans with friends, go on trips, get into a hobby. The world is yours.
I hope this post inspired you to really live it up, not just this summer but overall. If you got this far, I appreciate you! Have a great day/night <3