a poem I wrote for my Creative Writing class. I long for love, because I’ve never had it. maybe I’m in love with the idea. self-love fills my cup friends and family are a soothing blanket I long for love. the losers just want to hookup skin-deep connections are a habit maybe I’m ...
Relationships
For the hopeless romantic who keeps getting hurt
This post is for the hopeless romantic who wears their heart on their sleeve (like me). It can feel disheartening to put yourself out there only to be taken advantage of or played. But remember, having such a loving heart is a rarity. Don't let someone take that away from you. Another ...
Dating: Perspective Shift
I stay changing my mind lol. I've had a perspective shift when it comes to dating. I know I just wrote a post on how over I am of these guys but I asked myself, If I were to meet someone right now, considering the place I’m at in my life, is it in my best interest to get into a serious ...
Stronger discernment and high standards = no love life??
I’ve been single for a while now and though I’ve been celibate, I’ve been open to the experience of dating. But now that I have strengthened my discernment and elevated my standards, I’ve been on zero dates. It’s been more than a year since I’ve been on a date and I’m over it at this ...
Navigating Being Celibate
I’m currently on a celibacy journey and want to share my experience so far. Being celibate can be difficult but it's had way more benefits. This is for those wanting to be celibate and/or have been celibate for a while. I hope it resonates & helps you. To give some ...
Let Go of High Expectations
Having high expectations of others will eventually lead to disappointment and resentment. It’s been a recurring theme for me where I have expectations from close friends and end up getting my feelings hurt because they don’t show up the way I would have. But that’s not really ...